Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Tuesday Tidbit- the more you read...


To all the avid fiction readers, this Tuesday Tidbit is for you! The more novels you read, the better you are at understanding what people are thinking and feeling just by watching them. A study shows reading about complex characters trains your brain to pick up of subtle real-life facial and body cues! So happy reading! Too many books will not addle the brain.

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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Tuesday Tidbit- green with creativity!



 Found this tidbit interesting...It was found that people who saw green text were 30% more creative than those who saw black or red text. They suggested that we associate the color green with GO. So when we see it, our brain gets the message to not hold back on even the most out of the box ideas...Hmmm, next WIP might be in Green text font!

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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

A Tuesday Tidbit and Taste of Our WIP

The ring pictured is one worn by our Medeival heroine, Lady Agnes Carlisle. The stone is called Rhodonite. The word rhodonite is derived from the Greek word rhodon for rosy, although there is also reference that credited a Celtic word rhod, which means wheel, as the origins of the name. Rhodonite has quite a distinct pink or rose red color, although material containing black veins is more popular than the uniform pink.

 Some of the Metaphysical properties attributed to the stone are:
 Rhodonite has been called a “stone of love” and helps one to achieve his/her greatest potential. It is said to bring emotional balance.
Rhodonite can help one have a passionate love that is also grounded, It can find your Soulmate or help mend a broken heart.
Rhodonite is a stone often used in crystal healing for healing trauma and abuse issues.
Rhodonite works beneficially on the heart chakra, opening one to unconditional love and increased service to mankind.
Rhodonite is also a calming stone, with energies used for easing anger and fear.

 Agnes is aware a some of the metaphysical properties aligned to the stone, but not all. However, most are woven into and seen throughout the story.The ring is truly a subconscious talisman for her. Below is a rough draft snippet from Song of His Soul, Agnes and Gryffen's story, where our hero first comments on the ring. Though Agnes tells him of the stone, occurrences in her life won't let her believe them, even if they are her deepest desire. You see Agnes was raised to believe life was measured by responsibility and duty...and even these, people cruelly point out she has difficulty fulfilling. How could Love actually come into her life?
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 Gryffen took her hand. “’Tis a lovely ring.”

 His thumb easily covered the cabochon and most of her finger. He merely looked at the ring. Yet, a warmth filled the emptiest places in her body as if it recognized his touch as something more intimate. This sensation frightened her. She removed her hand from his and welcomed back the cold emptiness she was accustomed to feeling.

“’Twas my grandmother’s, a wedding gift from my grandfather." Memories tugged at her heart, their's was a true love story. "The merchant told him it brings love and balance.” So why was her world spinning? “Brings your soulmate.” Agnes giggled at the irony.

 “You find this amusing?”

 “Nay. Just…here I am married to Gryffen, the Soulless.”

 A rough sound came from him.

 She wasn’t sure if it was amusement or annoyance. “My apologies...I.”

 “Nay.” He put a fingertip to her lips, “I’ve told you I enjoy your laugh, have I not? Besides you are to pray I find a soul.” He winked at her.

Agnes smiled. His kindness would be her ruin. She could like him if she let herself. She reminded herself soulmates were for others. She seemed destined to never have one.

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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Tuesday Tidbit- Read like an Andorran

Nestled among the Pyrenees is the country of Andorra. The people of Andorra have the highest life expectancy rate in the world. How do they accomplish this rate? Well one way is with reading! Andorrans have the highest literacy rate in the world, it's 100%.

In fact, reading means so much to the citizens of this country, they have a holiday in April where they gift each other with new books! An entire holiday based on books! Studies show that reading is a top predictor of longevity. Not only does it keep your mind sharp, averting the onset of dementia, it also wards off depression. Research shows reading everyday can cut your risk 90%! so grab a book, and read...as if I had to tell you!

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Sunday, December 23, 2012

Christmas Rituals from Ireland


A blog by Felicity Hayes-McCoy from discoverireland.com  May you find traditions from your roots mingled in your Christmas present!

Traditions are especially cherished at this time of year, and often in parts of the country where the past does not seem so long ago. AuthorFelicity Hayes-McCoy recalls some of the Christmas rituals being celebrated in her corner of west Kerry.

In Ireland in the past, doors were left unlocked on Christmas Eve and fires that were usually covered with ashes at bedtime burnt brightly all night on the hearthstones. Each night during the Christmas season candles shone in the windows, sometimes anchored by sea-sand in jars wrapped in coloured paper, sometimes just set in a hole gouged out of a turnip.

 In many households today those old glass or stoneware jars, that once held jam or marmalade, are still carefully kept. Here in West Kerry they come out at Christmas to be refurbished, or just polished, and carefully set on the windowsills. And boxes of tall, red candles, big enough to burn each night through the Christmas season, still appear in shops here in December, along with boxes of salted fish, called ling, that’s traditionally eaten on Christmas Eve.

The open doors, the fires and the candles in the windows are part of Ireland’s traditional Christmas rituals. They offer symbolic warmth and shelter to Joseph and Mary on their way to Bethlehem, where, in the Christian story, Christ was born in a stable because there was no room at the inn.

 These days the candles in Irish windows are often powered by electricity but if you cross the mountain to Dingle on Christmas Eve the pinpoints of light, clustered like stars, still mark the presence of villages. And for centuries, Christmas lights here were more than symbols. Flickering in the darkness, they offered shelter to any and every wanderer who walked the Irish roads on Christmas Eve. 

It was an echo of the ancient, pre-Christian belief, held all over Europe, that a stranger on the threshold seeking shelter might well be a god in disguise.

 Everywhere you look at Christmas time in West Kerry you can see Ireland’s Celtic inheritance, still present in rituals that once brought energy and confidence to the darkest months of the pagan year.
Candle on Christmas Eve
On the 26th December, when one of the biggest holiday events in Ireland takes place in Dingle town. Its name is a corruption of the English word ‘wren’, and in the Irish language it’s Wran. There’s endless research on The Wran’s Day, and suggestions that, the word for wren, comes from ‘druid’s bird’. The festival’s certainly as old as the ancient gatherings in which disguised dancers swayed between bonfires, music and lights, dancing to ward off midwinter famine and darkness.

 In the past, groups of boys here used to dress up in rags or old coats turned inside out. Each separate group was called a ‘wran’. Smeared with soot, or wearing masks, they’d go from house to house, playing music and asking for pennies. Nowadays most people head for Dingle instead to join the rival parades that march and dance through the streets playing music. The collections are mainly for charities now and wrans compete to see who can raise the most money for local causes.

 Starting at sunrise, the festivities continue late into the night, when groups of masked musicians play and dance in the pubs and the streets, defying the winter cold and darkness. Everyone’s welcome to join the celebration. Like the open doors and flickering candles, the tradition of the Wran reaches out to friends and strangers alike. Rooted in ideas of hospitality and sharing, it’s not just a great way to keep the Christmas party going. It’s a living link with West Kerry’s ancient Celtic inheritance.

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Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Tuesday Tidbit

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

The Language of the Victorian Fan



Reading up on a few Victorian Customs led to a small blurb about fans I found really neat. A Century ago, this demur handheld accessory was used for more than to produce a breeze. It was also used to convey messages.

A few of them were:

Carrying it in the left hand: desirous of an acquaintance

Carrying it in the right hand: you are too willing

Carrying it in the right hand in front of the face: follow me

Closing it: I wish to speak to you

Drawing it across the cheek: I love you

Drawing it across the eyes: I am sorry

Drawing it across the forehead: we are being watched

Drawing it through the hand: I hate you

Dropping it: we will be friends

Fan with the left hand in front of the face: leave me

Fanning fast: I am engaged

Fanning slow: I am married

Letting it rest on the left cheek: no

Letting it rest on the right cheek: yes

Open and shut: you are cruel

Open wide: wait for me

Placing it on the right ear: you have changed

Shut: I have changed

Twirling it on the left hand: I love another

With handle to the lips: kiss me


Can You imagine if you weren't paying attention to how you were moving your fan or weren't aware of the fan language? oh the mixed messages you could be sending!

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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Brain Drain


Get tongue-tied around that hot guy? Have a guy approach you and have him become suddenly clumsy or at a loss for words? That silent type may not be deep andmysterious, it may be because he thinks your HOT! Is that blood flow south adage true?


New research at Radboud University in the Netherlands measured the effect of mixed-sex interactions on cognitive thinking. It found significant impairment in men. People were asked to talk to a stranger before talking a cognitive test. Talking to a woman imparied men's performances more, especially if he had the hots for her. Whether or not he was in a steady relationship. Women had brain drain too but not at the same downward spiral as the men.


Scientists say that the harder the men tried to make a good impression on a woman the dumber they got. Trying to carefully monitor how you are presenting yourself uses alot of mental activity. Thus tires the brain for other thinking tests. And men seem to put more thought towards possible "mating relations" during interactions than women do.

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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

A Birthday and a Blog~


Happy Birthday to Paula! Our webmistress extraodinaire and wonderful friend! I have no idea how she does all she does! But thank you!!


Birthdays are good for you. Statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest. I hope you celebrate many many many more!! Love ya, Chicca!


I blogged at TRSBLUE today!


I get a kick out of the titles on the covers of Cosmo and Glamour, one thatcaught my eye awhile back "What Men Really Think During Sex Besides YESSSSSSSS!" Yes, the title had me laughing. The article did too. Yeah, I read it! It seems we ladies shouldn't worry about the stretch marks and how we look nekkie. Menreally mean it when they say "You're being ridiculous. You look gorgeous." Men,it seems, when intoxicated with lust have the ability to airbrush the woman before them. Who knows maybe it's the blood flow south that affects thevision.*g*


Want more about the article and what goes through the male mind? check out theblog!~~




Hope everyone's having a great summer and a safe winter depending on where you are!

Mari

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Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Tuesday Tidbit- Mosquito Lure


Love Summer Nights on the deck or on the beach? Wouldn't they be so much more enjoyable if not for...MOSQUITOES!

Just read a tidbit in Woman's World Magazine about a natural lure to distract Mosquitoes this summer.Not sure I should let my husband see this.I'm sure he'll be all to eager to provide the empty materials needed. No need for expensive Tiki torches and Smelly Citronella candles. Just place a few empty beer bottles around the perimeter of your party. It seems they are attracted to the aroma wafting from them and will leave you alone.

Now, I was fine with this idea. Maybe put out a few decorative saucers and get rid of slugs too. But then I got to thinking, if mosquitoes are attracted to beer aroma from the empty bottles, what about your guests drinking beer at the party? Won't they be all the more attracted to them? I read Marigolds and Geraniums in the garden have a repelling aroma and gardening is almost as much fun as producing empty beer bottles...almost.

Anyone out there hear or know of any other natural mosquito lures and repellents?

Happy Summer!
Mari< Now addicted to facebook and Twitter

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